Traveling stories part 2: Vancouver

Right now I am in my hotel room in Hawaii. Why am I sitting in a hotel room in Hawaii writing this blog post. well since you so might have asked, I'm as bright as a tomato from sun burn so I couldn't think of a better time to write up this post while I shy away from the sun and whine about my burns :p

When I last left off I had a wonderful end to my stay in Seattle which included me driving a girl I picked up the day before in a mall back to her house because she was drunk and puking everywhere. After getting back to my hotel and sleeping for 4 hours I took a quick shower, packed all my things and checked out of my room. Next stop was Vancouver Canada for two days to visit a friend and do some more daygame.

The drive to Vancouver from Seattle was alright and was only 3 hours. I had a bit of a hassle at the boarder when the guard at the checkpoint asked me why I was going to Vancouver. My response: to meet up with a friend and go party. I'm not sure he liked that answer to much as he then sent me to the screening area to have my truck searched. about an hour after arriving at the boarder checkpoint I was off again to Vancouver. Good thing they didn't find that kilo of cocaine I was smuggling...... juuuuuuuuuuuust kidding.

The friend I was planning on meeting up with was a kid I met in Seattle on one of the daygame forums a couple years ago when I lived there and I helped him get into daygame and we've stayed in contact since then. He was going to college in Vancouver and invited me up for the weekend. After arriving and catching up we headed to a mall to do a bit of daygame. The mall was pretty big and we even got lost a couple times. We both did a few approaches and I got a number from one but wasn't really attracted to her after talking to her so I decided I wasn't going to contact her. For the night we planned on going into downtown Vancouver to the main street called Granvelle St. with all the night clubs. Vancouver's night life was pretty cool and we didn't even go into any clubs. It was like the whole street was one outdoor club. I managed to do a bit of approaches but even though we were outside it had a "night game" vibe to it which I didn't care for and I quickly lost my motivation add that to the 4 hours of sleep that day and I was pretty out of it so no action for the day.

The next day was a day to remember. We walked into downtown Vancouver for some more day game and this is where I was blown away by Vancouver. To me Vancouver is almost like a small New York. It has the same look as the city and the same vibe but a bit smaller and a more friendly vibe it was way cool. I even told myself after leaving that I would love to live there for like 6 months. The daygame was pretty good in downtown as well. Tons of attractive girls around every corner. I did a bit of approaches but my vibe was still a little low and I never really got going full on.

Two Approaches stand out from all the ones I did. One was of a Eastern European girl who was living in Vancouver now. She was cute but nothing super special. I decided to bounce her for an instant date just for the hell of it and we went to a starbucks. I told her it was my birthday that day and she bought me my drink. we then walked to a store where she had to get some things. Afterward we talked for a bit more and then she went on her way. I didn't really feel really into her so I didn't really follow her up except sent her an add on facebook. The next approach was the golden ticket. My friend pointed out a girl and said he thought he had approached her before and told me to go approach her so I went over to her. She ended up being 40! but she was actually pretty cute. she was short and petite so she held her youth really well and I guessed she was like 35.

She was a really nice girl and we had a pretty lengthy conversation. I tried to bounce her for an instant date but she declined all my offers. She told me she wasn't into dating anymore and really wanted to settle down more. I figured to interaction wasn't going to lead anywhere so we said goodbye, gave her a hug and started to walk away. Then she said this magical line. "I'll be at xxxxxx place if you want to come by tonight" I walked back up to her and said that she can't say her goodbye and then say something like that. I took her number and said I'll invite her out and if she wants to meet up cool and if not then no big deal. It turned out that wasn't the same girl my friend approached but we soon went back to his place to hang out for a bit.

The plan was to go to a electro concert that night with my friend. I texted the girl and she was being very receptive. I eventually suggested a meet up for a drink and she agreed and the gleemer of light turned brighter. We had planned to meet up later in the evening at a classy pub for a couple drinks. We met up out side to which I found out she lived about 2 blocks away (first sign of a green light). We went to the venue where we ordered drinks and started to create more of a connection. She was a very feminine girl and had a lot of character traits I liked and the conversation flowed well with a lot of chemistry involved. She Suggested bouncing to a nearby venue where she had a friend DJ'ing. we swung by the venue and had another drink and danced a bit. about 30 minutes after arriving I told her I needed to get going to the concert I was planning on going to with my friend. I pulled her in and told her to walk me. She grabbed her things and we headed out the door.

It helped that my truck was parked in the same direction as her place. When it got to the point of either going to my truck or the direction of her place I changed directions and headed to her place while keeping her mind occupied with conversation. standing outside her place I said " aren't you going to invite me in" we kissed and ran inside. While inside we hung out for about 5 minutes before she straddled me and I picked her up and carried her to her bedroom. We stripped down and got more sexual. I asked if she wanted me to grab a condom and she said she was on a birth control and was clean. BAM! say no more. we started to have sex and it was a pretty good sensual fuck. After sex we hung out for a bit before my friend called me drunk saying the concert isn't all that good and to meet him back at his place. Me and the girl got dressed and headed outside. We parted ways and I went to my truck where a problem arised.

Turns out the parking garage I was in closed at 12 and it was now 12:30 am. I waited in this lobby of an apartment next to the garage and figured I would wait 5 hours until the garage reopened. about an hour later a security gaurd came around and I asked him about the garage which he had a key for so I was able to get my truck out. I headed to my friends place where I found him drunk and spending most of the time in the bathroom puking. I passed out shortly after to the noises of him struggling with his drunkness. The morning I was planned to go to Portland for the day and then onwards to LA

I woke up then next day with 5 hours of sleep, took a shower, me and my friend talked about the night and then said our goodbyes. Vancouver is awesome and was a great experience now it was onward to Portland..... to be continued

Seattle, Vancouver, Portland, LA, Hawaii stories

This past 10 days have been more exciting to me than my whole summer of work in my eyes.

It all started as I left Alaska. I landed in Seattle, Took a cab to get my truck and after jump starting it because it had been sitting for 7 months I went to a local motel to set up base camp. Prior To landing in Seattle I had already had a few leads to work on. One was a really attractive 20 year old Romanian girl that I had been keeping the attraction going for the last 6 months, strangely she became a little distant in the last month but more on that later. The next lead was a Russian girl I had approached the last time I was in Seattle. Barley kept in contact with her but her text seemed warm so she was a possibility. The last prospect was a girl I was seeing for about a month when I lived there 2 years ago. Each time I made a stop in Seattle we would usually catch up but the last time didn't end in sex. I felt like she was definitely my meal ticket.

After trying to text the Russian and her not responding I figured she flaked, not a big deal as I figured she would. The main shocker came from the Romanian girl. I had put in extensive work with this girl and the last time I was in Seattle it ended with her in my hotel room and me going down on her. I eventually got in contact with her after her giving me a bit of a cold shoulder and found out she recently got into a relationship. Not a big deal, I did want to still see her just to catch up because in the end I'm not just out to sleep with girls I do like connecting with them. We made plans for us to meet up at a mall at 7. Well 7 O' clock came and she was nowhere to be found. I don't blame her though, I feel like she Is highly attracted to me and if she was around me she might be tempted to be a little precarious. That leaves the last girl, well low and behold after I mentioned something along the lines of me seducing her she told me she also just got into a relationship. FOR FUCKS SAKE! Anyways, I did manage to land a meet up with her. We went out and got some food, flirted for a bit, and she took me back to my truck. I kissed her on her cheek a few times and that was all she let progress even with my persistence.

That is the result of my promising leads from Seattle, turns out they weren't so promising. That is just one part of the Seattle failure there is oh so much more to tell.

The night I landed in Seattle I Approached a girl in a grocery store. The interaction went decent and I felt like I had a 50/50 chance with her. Over the next few days I went through hell and back. I went out daygaming and I figured I approached about 30 girls. I would like to say it was loads of fun but I would be drastically lying. Approach after approach I failed and got rejected. It was pretty harsh but Daygame has its swings just like anything else. I did manage to get another number which flaked, surprise surprise. I also landed an instant date with a pretty bubbly girl who ended up flaking on the texting and who had a BF and of course the girl from the grocery store flaked as well.

Seattle was not turning into a very good experience but a glimmer of hope surfaced.

It was my last approach I was planning on doing for that trip. I saw her, and my mentality shifted and I just felt like I was going to be able to land something with her. Short petite girl with long black hair, bright eyes and a quirky fashion sense. I approached her and quickly found out she had a very snappy/ smart personality. The type of girl to call you out on your shit and then walk away. Challenge me she did and I feel like it is because I was able to hold my frame and not be affected by her challenges for the reason that she became attracted to me. The script switched and now she was showing interest in me. I suggested to go to get smoothies for an instant date and she agreed. We talked for about 30 minutes and really created some chemistry. She had to go so we swapped numbers. Later we planned a date for the next day as I was leaving the morning after.

We met up at a local bar for a couple drinks and continued the connection, afterwards we went next door to an ice rink for some ice skating. My friend had contacted me and wanted to meet up that night as well to go out for drinks so I invited her out for drinks and dancing and she accepted. We met up with my friend and all went downtown where we were all having a lot of fun and having a few drinks. We bounced to a couple different venues and a problem quickly arised. My girl had drank too much.... I was trying to sober her up but to no avail it didn't work. She said she wanted to go home so I began to walk her to my truck where she began puking all the way home.... Strike 3 and I'm out. It sucked because this girl was a way cool girl ( i'm actually talking to her on facebook right now) We share the same personality traits so I can see this leading to a future success story.

5 days in and the tale is off to a fast start. The next day was Toronto for 2 days where the stories are even juicier..... To be continued.

200th post! lay report, end of season.

Alright alright aliriiiiiight! Finally it is here, the end of my work season. Yesterday was the last day for this season and it couldn't have come any sooner. The last few weeks were grueling and I actually genuinely wanted to quit about 4 days prior to the end. I've been working with this company for the last 8 years in the summer and I am really starting to resent the people I work with. I already planned on next season being my last season but we'll see If I even make it that far before flipping the bird and saying FUCK IT!

Enough of the complaining and on to the good stuff. Well 2 weeks before the end of the season I was finally able to get a lay from just daygame this summer. I have had a lay from online and a girl gave me a bj as well but just from strictly daygame this was the only one. There were a few other situations that could have lead to sex but I either turned it away or blew it, but with the lack of quality in AK I'm somewhat ok with just being able to have landed one girl.

I do feel like I have progressed a lot during this summer even though work really put limitations to how much I could game. None the less I do it for the enjoyment, the process, and then experience of it all with the results being the last thing I worry about. Or that is what I try to do anyways.

Unfortunately This lay wasn't even enjoyable to me. The process leading up to it was cool but actually laying the girl was a bit of a drag. Kind of the "thrill of the chase" syndrome. She was a sweet 22 year old girl, about 5'2'' black hair and petite. She also had two kids which didn't bother me at the time because I have no plans on being baby daddy. It also put a little bit of an obstacle in the way when trying to date/ lay her.

since she had her kids she was occupied with them always, so trying to find a time in our schedules to meet up proved difficult. The only thing that really saved it was the fact that I lived downtown and she worked about 4 blocks away and had lunch about 30 minutes after I got off work. So that was the window of opportunity with this girl, an hour lunch on the weekdays.

First date was just a coffee meet up for about 30 minutes. Nothing special, just building some comfort with her and talking about normal stuff. The next date was at a popular sandwhich shop. After lunch I built more of a connection and chemistry and by the end of the date we were hand in hand and kissing. The 3rd meet up I got her to come over to my place but she verbally said she was hesitant about it and I calmed her nerves and just made her comfortable with my place. She came back over the next day and we had sex.

The sex, as I said wasn't really that enjoyable to me. I actually enjoy taking my time with a girl and being able to seduce her to where she is begging for more. Since she only had a short time limit, that wasn't possible. The second factor was that she had 2 kids. Covered in clothes she was a pretty attractive girl, but naked she was a bit farther from being attractive. Sounds bad I know but I'm a guy. The sex was kind of fast and not really saucy by any means so not much to report. After that she Texted me about 5 days later asking if it was a hit and run. I really don't like hurting girls or lying to them so I just worded my responses to not include hurtful things. fortunately for me I leave in a couple days so that is the easy scape goat for me.

Last but not least this post is the mark of my 200th post on this blog. I actually really enjoy blogging for me It is a way to not only talk about things I want to talk about but it is also like a personal journal that I can share for whoever wants to read it. Something I can look back on and recollect the memories. I have big plans over the next couple years which includes creating 1 or more websites and this blog might end up being shifted over to 1 of those sites.

To anyone that reads or follows my blog I really really appreciate it. I don't do this particular blog for any kind of following but having a following is cool and I really enjoy having readers.  I appreciate any kind of support you guys show and thank you for reading.

So until next time cosmonauts, stay tuned :)