i believe i left off last week on wednesday. thursday i think i went out and did daygame but i cant really remember that well. friday was the big day. i had my second date planned with the costume designer from dancing with the stars at 8pm. also the latino girl that i picked up a few weeks ago was back in town and we set up a date for friday afternoon but she had to be back at 7pm so it looked like it was going to be my first time having 2 dates on a single day.
the latino girl is super fun. she has a very outgoing personality but is very sweet. she also likes to think of a lot of ideas of fun times we can have. she thought of the date that we went on friday she also suggested a concert to go to tonight that we are going to later and she also is inviting me on a party bus with all of her friends and then onto a club with a private table and all that.
she's pretty into me and i like her a lot as well. although i dont want a serious relationship, it feels good to be able to connect with someone and enjoy each others company and have fun. the date we had planned out was a place called hunigton library which was a huge botanical garden place as well as some kind of historic library but we didnt go into the library. they had really cool exhibits of things like a desert garden, asian garden, austrailan garden, and plenty of other exhibits. it was actually a really cool place and i have a short clip of the two of us in part of the asian exhibit.
i ended up dropping her off around 7 and headed for my next date with the DWTS girl. i wasnt sure if i was even going to make it cause of LA traffic and almost cancelled but it worked out in the end.
we plan was to go to a pool hall and go from there. i was interested in how this would play out because after the first date i was for sure that she wasnt interested in me as that is how the vibe felt. after meeting up with her she seemed pretty welcoming and open so things went good. she was really big into college basketball so we watched her team play and then we played pool. the date went pretty well and we flirted a bit and i suggested we bounce to a frozen yogurt place.
we got to the frozen yogurt place and ordered our treats. I am kind of wondering what the guy at the shop is thinking as this was the 4th girl i brought there this week haha. after we got our things we talked for a bit and i actually asked her why she came out again. she said she talked it over with her friends and thought that even though i was 25 she is 30, that she shouldnt judge me off of that because i seemed really decent and things were going good..... girls... i felt like there was a bit more attraction this time around but she is still a conservative type of girl so i had her take me back to my car. i gave her a couple hugs and then pulled her in close for a couple passionate kisses where she accepted them warmly compared to the first time around.
i also really like her as well. she is pretty calm and collected but at the same time is outgoing and open minded and i really like girls like that. i suggested that it was time to wine and dine her and she agreed so we have our 3rd date set up for this thursday. i feel like this will be the date that will get her back to my place and i can finally escalate things with her. i have liked the drawn out seduction process that we have gone through so far as it keeps things fresh. if we dont seal the deal after this date i might be able to take her out one more time but after that i will be leaving back to AK and wont be able to.
saturday was interesting as i went out to do daygame and put in a lot of effort. i got 2 numbers that i feel are really flakey so im not thinking anything about them but one of the girls seemed to have a flirty vibe to her and i thought for sure i was going to meet up with her later that night but she never did text back i'll text her one more time to see if things come through or not. another thing that stood out was one of the last approaches i did. i approached 2 girls and started to talk with them but after a few minutes the hottest of the two started to turn bitchy and was totally blowing me out of the water which was totally unexpected. it rattled me a bit. even so much that the next day when i went out i had negative thoughts on my mind about approaching.
in a sense it is good to have your world shaken a little bit so you dont become arrogant but it still isnt something i look foreward to. in the end you just got to push through it and grow from the experience. onward is the only way upward.so until next time cosmonauts, stay tuned :)
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