Part 4: Hawai- O'ahu and maui.

Half way through December and I am finally finishing up my " November stories" oh where has the time gone. On a side note, dating a girl who is really active means that she always has ideas for fun things to do and try which leaves you little free time but you are usually always entertained.

When I left off on the last post I had just finished off in L.A. (with the girl I just mentioned) and I was flying to Hawaii. I had two stops planned for Hawaii, I was planning on staying 10 days on O'ahu with two of my friends from Alaska, and then after that I was going to hop over to the island of Maui to spend another week with a friend from Alaska who is now living on Maui.

This trip marked the 3rd time for me going to O'ahu and to be honest I would much rather go other places. O'ahu is the main tourist Island of Hawaii. particularly a section of O'ahu called waikiki. I typically always tell people if they plan on visiting Hawaii to go to Waikiki first because you can do all the tourist things there, then when you go to Hawaii again you can go to a different Island and do more of an actual "Hawaiian experience". The reason I went back to O'ahu this time was because it was my friends first time to Hawaii and like I just stated. Since it was their first time we decided on going to O'ahu. Don't get me wrong though, you can have a lot of fun. It's just that it is a tourist trap and everyone knows what that is like.

 I met up with my friends at the airport and we headed to the hotel. These two guys were friends that I have grown up with from my childhood and we were all more of like brothers. I love these guys and we always have fun together but they do have their downsides just like everyone has. There biggest pit fall is they are unmotivated and huge gamers. there was several times I had to motivate them to leave the hotel to go out and do stuff instead of sit in the room and play their gamboy 3ds. sounds insane I know.

None the less we did have our fun and lots of it. We did all the touristy things from surfing, paddle boarding, and going on water tricycles. We went to a water park which was very fun, hiked a dormant volcano dome, swam in the ocean and sun bathed (mostly burning).

One of the memories that I came away with was a little adventure we had while renting mopeds. We had planned to rent mopeds, go to the volcano to hike, drive around and then turn the mopeds back in at night. All was going well and the day was soon to end. We decided to head back to the moped shop to turn them in. On our way back we came speeding up to a pedestrian crosswalk when my friend in front of me slammed on his breaks because someone wanted to cross. Which in turn caused me to slam on my breaks, unfortunately my friend behind me had barley any time on any kind of motorcycle and the next thing I remember is a hard crash in the back of me and me falling to the pavement. FUCK!

My friend didn't stop fast enough and he ran into me. We were both ok but my friend had some minor cuts on his foot and leg, I had a couple bruises and scratches but nothing dramatic. The more concerning thing was the mopeds. Mine was fine and no visible damage, the other one had some broken pieces and a front tired fender cracked. I knew we were in for it because we opted not to take up any insurance when we rented them. We composed our selves and drove back to the shop where the guy began to over rationalize the damage. I mentioned to him if it was substantial damage then I wanted a moped mechanic to come by and give me a quote on the damages which I'm sure went in one ear and out the other. He through out a number of 900$! declaring that the whole front end was bent and had to be replaced. Basically he was screwing us over. I talked to my friend about it and he was fine with paying whatever so after a little bit of bartering with the guy I got him to settle for 775$ and me and my friend split the cost. since we split the cost it wasn't a huge deal but still not very enjoyable. My friend said sorry to me to which I told him It really wasn't a big deal, shit happens and in the end it is a story we will have and be able to laugh over in the future. everything is cool.

The next major event was something very fun. I had been texting the girl I had met and went on a date with in seattle a few weeks ago (part 1) and the vibe was staying pretty positive and good. She sounded so enthused about Hawaii so... I invited her to come down. At first it was more or less just a harmless invite that I didn't think too much about. Her reactions were positive and with a little bit of text game and negotiations I was able to help persuade her little hamster in her head and she bought a ticket for that upcoming weekend.

Pretty crazy but sometimes all you have to do is offer and do a little persisting and magic can happen. Friday night came and she arrived at the hotel.

I had booked a separate hotel room because there was no way she was staying with me and my two friends in one room. The weekend turned out to just be me and her which my friends were ok about. They just played games the whole weekend anyways. This girl was very fun and had a very adventurous and funny/quirky personality. although she stayed for the weekend we only ended up having sex 3 times but we could have went for more if we stayed in the room more. We had a lot of fun which included dining at the top of a revolving restraunt looking over waikiki's skyline, some beach time, going to the zoo, and a few other activities. It turned out to be very enjoyable and those types of things happen to you when you learn daygame. You end up having a lot of enjoyable times with the girls and people you want to be with.

The girl left Sunday night and me and my friends had a few more days before they left and I went to Maui. Once I was on Maui things were very different. I get a really really unmotivated vibe from Maui which is good in its own way as that is what the island attracts. My friend that lives there adds to that. Same thing, I love the guy and he is a great guy but there are some things I don't really care for about his lifestyle. he does have things he is doing in his life which is good but more or less it revolves around smoking weed. The thing that I do respect him about though is that he accepts that and he wants that as a lifestyle which is why he moved to Maui and why he loves it there so much so I really respect him for that and doing what he wants to do... it's just not what I want so our personalities bump occasionally.

All in all it was an enjoyable stay on Maui as well. Didn't do a whole lot outside of beach things but I didn't have the expectations that I was going to do a lot on Maui anyways. One of my missions this winter was to just try and live life and live the experiences. One of those experiences was smoking weed with my friend. I never smoked before (shocking I know) and I just wanted to experience it, and experience it I did. We smoked quite a bit the week I was there and while I did trip out a bit on it, it was enjoyable and fun but I feel so unmotivated on it so if I plan on smoking it in the future I will limit it to the same as I do binge drinking which is usually only on special or rare occasions when I want to let loose have crazy fun or something along those lines.

So it was time to leave Maui and end my Hawaii vacation and head back to L.A. where I would be getting into the relationship with the girl there for the winter and enjoy the rest of the winter while concentrating on other the things I am trying to accomplish this winter. That's it for the November stories. hope they were entertaining and as always until next time, stay tuned cosmonauts :)

Traveling stories part 3: Portland and L.A

Sorry for the delay on the posts folks. Just got finished with my 17 day vacation in Hawaii which included 10 days on O'ahu and a week on Maui. I didn't spend anytime online which is the reason for the lack of posts except for the last one when I was nurturing a sun burn :|  Well I'm back in L.A now and today is the first day of my winter grind, so first on the list was to update the blog.

After leaving Vancouver, Canada with only 5 hours of sleep I headed straight to Portland, Oregon. I have a friend from Alaska who is living in Portland and has his birthday a day after mine so I made it a point to be in attendance. I also had plans of meeting another fellow daygamer that lived in Portland that I had met on the daygame forums.

After arriving in Portland I contacted the daygamer from the forums and we met up. He turned out to be a pretty cool guy. One year older than me and had been doing daygame for about a 1/4 of the time I had but his progress was very quick and he was someone you knew would excel at it. It was kind of lame because me and this guy connected really well. It's like when two people have the same mind frames, beliefs, and think very similar you can benefit so much from each other. Every one does better around like minded people and this was the first daygamer I had been around that thought pretty much exactly how I did so we clicked instantly. We only daygamed for a short few hours but it was way fun being introduced to downtown Portland and all the unique perspectives it had to offer. I managed to get a number and an instant date but nothing progressed out of either but I wasn't expecting much out of just one day in Portland.

After our short daygame session we went and grabbed a beer where we talked about theory and other life pertaining topics which is where being around like minded people can do wonders. After hanging out for a bit it was time for me to meet up with my friend for his B-day celebration so I said goodbye to my new wing in Portland and headed over to my friends.

My friend was hosting a dinner at a local middle eastern/ Indian restaurant which actually was way good. Afterwards we went to a local ice cream shop that was serving flavors such as: minced meat pie, olive oil and sea salt, brown sugar and coffee, as well as a few "normal" flavors. I decided to not be too extreme and go with snickerdoodle and cinnamon. From there we dropped in numbers to just 5, it was my friend, his 3 other band members, and me. We headed to a local pub and they decided on drinks. I planned on driving to LA in the morning so I only had the opening round of a tequila shot. We bounced to about 4 different pubs while everyone was getting more and more drunk and soon it was just down to my friend, his bass player, and me. I was DD  but it was cool. It was soon 3:30 AM and I was planning on driving to LA at 7 am so I could be there before midnight. I also planned on being asleep by about midnight so I could get enough sleep to do so. I also somehow forgot people go out and party on their B-days into the wee hours of the night.

I ended up dropping my friend and his bass player off and decided to say  "Fuck it" and hit the road. Filled up on gas, bought some munchies, put on the Ipod and........ pulled over about 2 hours later to go to sleep hahahha. I only slept for a few hours before I was back on the road, drove for about 8-10 hours before feeling exhausted and pulled off for another hour of sleep and then mad it the rest of the way to LA. You know what with only such a limited amount of sleep over those few days I only almost fell asleep at the wheel probably about 5 times... not to bad :P

Eagerly awaiting me in LA was the girl I am buckling down with for the winter. After arriving, Having a short passionate kiss I hit the shower making sure to clean off the reminisce of all the abused adrenaline I've managed to use over the last week. It didn't take long after that before we were in bed tangled inbetween each other. The reason I decided to stay with this girl for the winter is for many reasons. mainly out of all the girls I've been with she is the one who closely resembles me and we connected and see eye to eye really well. she also has the figure I love which is about 5'6'' and 140lbs, not chubbie! she is proportionate and has a sex drive of a 16 year old boy. Also she is pretty damn kinky which is a topping to the cake. On a normal day she is a 7 but dressed up and flashy she can pull off an 8. She has long flowing brunette hair, a nice full ass, and Large breasts that are fake, we are in LA after all.

I had 3 days scheduled for LA before it was off to Hawaii for 17 days and in those 3 days I can say I managed to do one thing. spend about a months worth of sperm. girl just did not want to stop :) Even better is she got on birth control before I came ( pun intended) so that means no rubber for the whole winter YIPPEE! The whole time in LA was pretty much straight forward. Wake up have sex, Do whatever during the day, go out for food, come home have sex multiple times. After 3 days of that I was actually pretty wore out. I mean a guy only has so much to offer. After all that she drove me to the airport where we kissed and said goodbye.

Next stop was Hawaii where things got a little frisky, dangerous, and adventurous. So until next time cosmonauts, stay tuned :)