Pushing past comfort zones.

Day game will teach you many things that you can use in all aspects of your life. One of which is being able to push past comfort zones.

Fortunately this Isn't only going to relate to day game but your whole life in general. Comfort zones can be both great and horrible. You can feel comfortable with a person to be able to connect and relate to them or you can also live your life in fear because you are too afraid to leave your comfort zone.

Not being able to step outside of your comfort zone can be what defines a persons life. If you think about it almost everything you have had to do in your life you probably weren't 100% comfortable doing. When you were a young teenager going for your drivers license were you comfortable taking the test or were you nervous, when you went after that job you really wanted did you ever second guess yourself? Or how about that girl sitting over in the corner of the coffee shop practically begging for you to go talk to her.

Without stepping outside your comfort zone you simply don't experience life. A quote I heard said " you have to become comfortable at being uncomfortable". Meaning that you have to be ok with the thought and idea that being uncomfortable is ok.

Do you want to pursue a new career but you are scared of the possible negative outcome? Do you want to move up stakes in poker because you feel you are ready but you are afraid to lose money? Are you staying in a relationship you don't care for because it will be too hard to find a new one?

The only way to grow, push forward, and experience better things is to take action and push past your comfort zones. If not you simply missed out on what could have been, but you won't ever know because you didn't step outside your comfort zone.

Are you living life?

Same day lay mission

Here is a story that happened to me last weekend when I was daygaming.

It was Saturday and I was feeling good. The day before I had a good day of daygaming that included hanging out with a girl for an hour That I had approached before she went to work. In that time I tried to kiss her 3 times. After she went to work I landed another approach that went really well and set up a date for the upcoming weekend. To put it short, I was feeling good.

Today I was hitting the mall right next to my place, There's a reason I'm staying where I am staying  ;) After rocking up to the mall and spending a little time inside I found that it wasn't very busy in terms of hot girls running about. Well this is Alaska after all, not many hot girls in general. There was a couple approaches that didn't lead anywhere as well as an amusing one that went " I just wanted to tell you that you look attractive for an older woman"  "I'm 30....."  ...... anyways.... After those approaches I felt like it was just going to be one of those days. A day that you want to put in the effort but there just isn't anything to put the effort into.
Then I saw her.

A small young girl walking out of a bra/panty store wearing tight fitting grey leggings that shaped very well to the contour of her small tight ass. The primal instinct kicked in and I ran after her. I stopped her and began to gaze into her eyes as I began to create a conversation with her. She had shy personality, yet she wasn't afraid. I found out she was only here for the day, living a few hours away she came into the city for shopping. Finding out she was Russian was a big surprise as she didn't have an accent but looking down at her breasts I found a reason to believe her. Such a sweet nice girl with a body that would make you drool.

She insisted that she needed to find jeans and asked if I could help walk her to the store, good sign. We began walking. I brought her to the store and told her that I wanted some frozen yogurt and she was coming with me. She agreed and we went on our way. She was following my lead as younger girls love to do and it was going smoothly. After getting our frozen yogurt, we sat down and began to have a proper instant date chat. learning a little bit more about each other, nothing too special. We finished up and I began to walk her to the store again. In front of the store I told her I wasn't going to shop with her as girls take too long to shop. I said we would probably never see each other again and she agreed. I asked her if she likes Italian sodas as I know a really good place close by. She hadn't had one so I told her we are going to go get one and she followed my lead again.

The Italian soda place I just outside the mall about a block away, conveniently about 1 block away from my place as well. From here I think you know where my thoughts were at. After we were handed our sodas she followed me as we began to walk in the direction of where my place just so happened to be conveniently located. We arrived at the corner, just about 50 feet away was my place, all that I need to do now is suggest coming up for some music and funny videos on the computer, lead the interaction and enjoy the fruits of my labor.

That's when captain destruction on the mighty destructor stepped in. RING RING!!! her phone began to go off. She answers it and tells the peron on the phone she is in one of the stores in the mall. She gets off the phone and says, "sorry I have to go" .... so.... damn.... close....

Before she leaves I take her number as we hug and part ways. Even without the happy ending to the story, I was loving how things turned out. I enjoyed the process of being able to lead the interaction but sometimes you just can't fade the case ace on the river.

I began texting her and we've texted a few times since then. She is going to try and come back up to see me before I leave. she seems to show a lot of interest but girls are girls so I won't be holding my breath by any means. Next is the date set up for this weeknd with the girl from the day before. We'll see if she comes through.

until next time cosmonauts, stay tuned :)