anyways so i went to the mall and looked around a bit before going to the food court where i found my first unsuspecting victim.. i mean girl sitting by her self so i approached. to go on a side note i think the mall is my favorite spot to talk to females just due to the simple fact of all the stores the large food courts and its a positive atmosphere. specially being in alaska theres not a whole lot of places that a lot of people gather. so anyways the girl was probablly an 8 and she was actually really attractive. and she seemed like the perfect girl to take advantage off. i mean have a comitted realationship...*cough* so i approached her and the conversation went good, talked for probablly 20 minutes but within that time i found out she was just visiting alaksa to see her husband who was in the millitary up here with whom she has a kid with.. yeah.. but instead of just leaving when she said she had a husband i stayed and talked to her a bit mainly just to run some routines and get comftorable talking. bassically just using her for practice. she was a nice girl though and probablly would have givin me her number except for her being married and yes she did have a ring on. so after that i went into a outlet store and was looking around when a cute little sales associate commented on my drink i had and then i was like. you know this is the perfect time to try and hit on somone who is working. especially seeing how ive been wanting to try and get into that a bit. so i started talking to her and it turns out she was super bubbly and ditzy. she was also from california but had been living in alaska for like the last few years. about halfway through the conversation i just felt like there was no way i could get into this girl. like her ditzyness was just putting me off and she also had to welcome and help customers in the store so that was another obstacle in the way so eventually i just said i had to go and left. i felt good though, even though i didnt get any numbers i opened 2 girls in an hour so thursday was fun. friday i ended up going back to the mall again but this time only for a short while and pretty much went straight to the food court. i saw a girl who was wearing a pretty eye catching dress like almost princess type dress and was like wierd. so i approached her hahaha. she turned out to be russian. man i love russians. turns out she was a russian orthodox and it was her religion to dress like that so yeah whatevers clever. i talked to her for about 15 minutes and she was fun, and pretty much eating up what i was talking to her about and then bam. the "im married" line came up. look down and BAM! BANG! ring on her finger. fuck... it was kinda interesting though cause she told me that if her husband were to see her talking to me he would probablly flip out, which was her saying that we probablly should end the conversation. so that was a first. never been rejected mid conversation but it wasnt like a boot out the door just like a " sorry but yeaaah" type rejection hahah. either way i was glad i did the approach. so up to that point the last 4 girls i hit (one from last week) on 3 had been married and 1 was a dumb ditz. i felt like i was running pretty good hahahaha.
going into saturday i was feeling pretty pumped. specially after what happend last saturday my mind set was pretty positive. i did go out during the day on saturday but to a different mall but unfortunitley didnt really see to many opportunities and left with a goose egg. my friend ended up sending me a message saying that all the bars and clubs downtown were participating in a pirate pub crawl. what that entails is that you get a "treasure" map of all the places you have to get a stamp on your map turn it in at the end of the night and you have a chance to win a flight or somthing like that. thats the intentions of it anyways. the reallity of it all is everyone ends up dressing up like pirates, gets shit faced, and has a fun time. so me and my friend went and got some pirate attire for the night.
( im the one on the right) the only thing that was kinda bad about the situation was that it almost resembles halloween night except only pirate attire. theres a good and bad to it. yes theres a lot of girls dressed up like skimpy beer wenches. but just like halloween when the girls are dressed up like hot nurses and what not there attitude and gaurd are even more protective. they are there to have fun and look seductive, but their mind set is "hey just cause i dress this way, does not make me" blah blah blah weve all heard it. so that was an obstacle i was really dredding for the night. me and my friend got downtown a bit early actually cause the whole event started at like 7 and went till 3am but we got there at like 9 which was pretty damn early for the night life scene. there was actually some live music playing at one of the clubs. a couple of the bands were from the metal concert me and my friend went to last weeknd so that was fun watching it. after that i found the first set i wanted to approach. a total of 3 girls one of the girls was probablly a solid 8.5 and she was the intended target the next was a solid 7.5 but nothing super special about her but she was still an attractive girl. the last but certainly.. certainly not least was the fucking grenade or i should say bomb. basically the fat mother hen. ahhh fuck.
anyways i did the approach and opened the set and start the conversation. my friend walks up a couple minutes later and do the whole introduction thing. and shortly after that the grenade takes my friend and pulls him out of site. so i was like shiiiit takin one for the team bro. nice hahaha. the hot 8.5 was actually kind of stand offish and i think they mentioned she had a boyfriend. but the 7.5 was more opened to conversing so i converted the conversation to her and sat next to her and was running some pretty decent game on her. my friend and the grenade come back and my friend sits next to me and tells me that the grenade basically wanted us to leave and said all of them had boyfriends. BITCH YOU JUST HATIN. hahahah i told my friend i would be right behind him after i spent a few more minutes trying some new techniques i learned. after wards though i made my excuses and left. in the future i plan on learning how to deal with the downer of the group so its on my checklist of things to learn
we ended up going to more bars and i talked to a few more sets here and there and over the whole night i probablly talked to around 5 or 6 girls so that was positive. the only thing was i couldnt find a girl who wanted to actually converse. it was like every set i went to the girls were totally stand offish and i couldnt break through their barriers. it was pretty harsh and like took a hit to my game. i was like what am i doing wrong it worked so well before why not now. this that the other. in the end though somtimes you just run bad. the way night game works or even just attracting a female is that you munipulate the conversation to show how attractive you are. also doing things to get the girl comftorable and attracted to you so you can munipulate her thaughts to end up going home with you. sounds a bit extreme but its not to bad if you know what to say and do. that is only if the girls will actually be interested in talking to you. doesnt matter how good your game is, if they wont talk to you then you arnt going to be able to get anywhere. and thats pretty much how every set that i talked to saturday night went. im not totally sure but i think with it being dress up night that might of had somthing to do with it. it was a bit frustrating at the end of the night and it felt like my game was lacking big time. its just like poker though. when you go on a downswing you feel like your doing somthing wrong even if you are a proven winner. on another side note. i can dirrectly incorporate poker and being a pick up artist in so many ways. they are alike in so many ways and both have a great deal to do with physcology thats probablly why im so interested in both of them. to recap the night though it was actually pretty damn fun and im glad i did all the approaces as well as the ones during the week. so my confidence with approaching is through the roof so now its just the inner game to work on. buuuuut as you can tell in the female department the whole week was an epic fail.
OHHH! and that chick that was super into me last weeknd, yeah... she flaked hahahh guess the alcohol wore off pretty fast. i should have pulled a one nighter while i had the chance. jsut felt like i should go about it the sensible way and take her out on a date first... lesson learned, lol. so this post is actually rather long and i appologize it was just a lot to talk about. i have a couple last things i was to mention beofore closing out. first ive been noticing that im probablly getting like 25 views a week which is cool. im not trying to be a super star or anything, im glad i have readers. but on my page i only have 7 public followers. if theres any readers reading this who havnt followed me publicly then you should and if i get up to 15 followers before the end of the month ill post a video of me approaching, carrying conversation, trying to get a phone number from a girl. if you guys leave comments what you would like me to do more wether it be night game or day game, the most comments on the same choice i will post. last but not least the guy who runs the .25/.50 cent home game that i play in sometimes. i hit him up to see if he could find at least 5 other players to play 2/5nl with a min buyin of 200$ he tried but he said he doubt he could find anyone. so he tried again but this time a 1/2nl with a min buyin of 100 and says hes got some people interested. so this weeknd if the game goes i will play in that and this time i will actually count to my bankroll wether i win or lose. when i left vegas i had a total bankroll of 12,750$ and ive made like 60$ at that home game over the past 4 sessions but im not counting those since its a small amount of money. so this session coming up will go on the tally so im excited to hopefully play. well cosmonauts again i appologize for the long read and if you made it all the way through without dying i congrdulate you. dont forget to follow me publicly :) untill next time space cadets. aim for a planet and youll eventually hit some stars
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