Part 4: Hawai- O'ahu and maui.

Half way through December and I am finally finishing up my " November stories" oh where has the time gone. On a side note, dating a girl who is really active means that she always has ideas for fun things to do and try which leaves you little free time but you are usually always entertained.

When I left off on the last post I had just finished off in L.A. (with the girl I just mentioned) and I was flying to Hawaii. I had two stops planned for Hawaii, I was planning on staying 10 days on O'ahu with two of my friends from Alaska, and then after that I was going to hop over to the island of Maui to spend another week with a friend from Alaska who is now living on Maui.

This trip marked the 3rd time for me going to O'ahu and to be honest I would much rather go other places. O'ahu is the main tourist Island of Hawaii. particularly a section of O'ahu called waikiki. I typically always tell people if they plan on visiting Hawaii to go to Waikiki first because you can do all the tourist things there, then when you go to Hawaii again you can go to a different Island and do more of an actual "Hawaiian experience". The reason I went back to O'ahu this time was because it was my friends first time to Hawaii and like I just stated. Since it was their first time we decided on going to O'ahu. Don't get me wrong though, you can have a lot of fun. It's just that it is a tourist trap and everyone knows what that is like.

 I met up with my friends at the airport and we headed to the hotel. These two guys were friends that I have grown up with from my childhood and we were all more of like brothers. I love these guys and we always have fun together but they do have their downsides just like everyone has. There biggest pit fall is they are unmotivated and huge gamers. there was several times I had to motivate them to leave the hotel to go out and do stuff instead of sit in the room and play their gamboy 3ds. sounds insane I know.

None the less we did have our fun and lots of it. We did all the touristy things from surfing, paddle boarding, and going on water tricycles. We went to a water park which was very fun, hiked a dormant volcano dome, swam in the ocean and sun bathed (mostly burning).

One of the memories that I came away with was a little adventure we had while renting mopeds. We had planned to rent mopeds, go to the volcano to hike, drive around and then turn the mopeds back in at night. All was going well and the day was soon to end. We decided to head back to the moped shop to turn them in. On our way back we came speeding up to a pedestrian crosswalk when my friend in front of me slammed on his breaks because someone wanted to cross. Which in turn caused me to slam on my breaks, unfortunately my friend behind me had barley any time on any kind of motorcycle and the next thing I remember is a hard crash in the back of me and me falling to the pavement. FUCK!

My friend didn't stop fast enough and he ran into me. We were both ok but my friend had some minor cuts on his foot and leg, I had a couple bruises and scratches but nothing dramatic. The more concerning thing was the mopeds. Mine was fine and no visible damage, the other one had some broken pieces and a front tired fender cracked. I knew we were in for it because we opted not to take up any insurance when we rented them. We composed our selves and drove back to the shop where the guy began to over rationalize the damage. I mentioned to him if it was substantial damage then I wanted a moped mechanic to come by and give me a quote on the damages which I'm sure went in one ear and out the other. He through out a number of 900$! declaring that the whole front end was bent and had to be replaced. Basically he was screwing us over. I talked to my friend about it and he was fine with paying whatever so after a little bit of bartering with the guy I got him to settle for 775$ and me and my friend split the cost. since we split the cost it wasn't a huge deal but still not very enjoyable. My friend said sorry to me to which I told him It really wasn't a big deal, shit happens and in the end it is a story we will have and be able to laugh over in the future. everything is cool.

The next major event was something very fun. I had been texting the girl I had met and went on a date with in seattle a few weeks ago (part 1) and the vibe was staying pretty positive and good. She sounded so enthused about Hawaii so... I invited her to come down. At first it was more or less just a harmless invite that I didn't think too much about. Her reactions were positive and with a little bit of text game and negotiations I was able to help persuade her little hamster in her head and she bought a ticket for that upcoming weekend.

Pretty crazy but sometimes all you have to do is offer and do a little persisting and magic can happen. Friday night came and she arrived at the hotel.

I had booked a separate hotel room because there was no way she was staying with me and my two friends in one room. The weekend turned out to just be me and her which my friends were ok about. They just played games the whole weekend anyways. This girl was very fun and had a very adventurous and funny/quirky personality. although she stayed for the weekend we only ended up having sex 3 times but we could have went for more if we stayed in the room more. We had a lot of fun which included dining at the top of a revolving restraunt looking over waikiki's skyline, some beach time, going to the zoo, and a few other activities. It turned out to be very enjoyable and those types of things happen to you when you learn daygame. You end up having a lot of enjoyable times with the girls and people you want to be with.

The girl left Sunday night and me and my friends had a few more days before they left and I went to Maui. Once I was on Maui things were very different. I get a really really unmotivated vibe from Maui which is good in its own way as that is what the island attracts. My friend that lives there adds to that. Same thing, I love the guy and he is a great guy but there are some things I don't really care for about his lifestyle. he does have things he is doing in his life which is good but more or less it revolves around smoking weed. The thing that I do respect him about though is that he accepts that and he wants that as a lifestyle which is why he moved to Maui and why he loves it there so much so I really respect him for that and doing what he wants to do... it's just not what I want so our personalities bump occasionally.

All in all it was an enjoyable stay on Maui as well. Didn't do a whole lot outside of beach things but I didn't have the expectations that I was going to do a lot on Maui anyways. One of my missions this winter was to just try and live life and live the experiences. One of those experiences was smoking weed with my friend. I never smoked before (shocking I know) and I just wanted to experience it, and experience it I did. We smoked quite a bit the week I was there and while I did trip out a bit on it, it was enjoyable and fun but I feel so unmotivated on it so if I plan on smoking it in the future I will limit it to the same as I do binge drinking which is usually only on special or rare occasions when I want to let loose have crazy fun or something along those lines.

So it was time to leave Maui and end my Hawaii vacation and head back to L.A. where I would be getting into the relationship with the girl there for the winter and enjoy the rest of the winter while concentrating on other the things I am trying to accomplish this winter. That's it for the November stories. hope they were entertaining and as always until next time, stay tuned cosmonauts :)

Traveling stories part 3: Portland and L.A

Sorry for the delay on the posts folks. Just got finished with my 17 day vacation in Hawaii which included 10 days on O'ahu and a week on Maui. I didn't spend anytime online which is the reason for the lack of posts except for the last one when I was nurturing a sun burn :|  Well I'm back in L.A now and today is the first day of my winter grind, so first on the list was to update the blog.

After leaving Vancouver, Canada with only 5 hours of sleep I headed straight to Portland, Oregon. I have a friend from Alaska who is living in Portland and has his birthday a day after mine so I made it a point to be in attendance. I also had plans of meeting another fellow daygamer that lived in Portland that I had met on the daygame forums.

After arriving in Portland I contacted the daygamer from the forums and we met up. He turned out to be a pretty cool guy. One year older than me and had been doing daygame for about a 1/4 of the time I had but his progress was very quick and he was someone you knew would excel at it. It was kind of lame because me and this guy connected really well. It's like when two people have the same mind frames, beliefs, and think very similar you can benefit so much from each other. Every one does better around like minded people and this was the first daygamer I had been around that thought pretty much exactly how I did so we clicked instantly. We only daygamed for a short few hours but it was way fun being introduced to downtown Portland and all the unique perspectives it had to offer. I managed to get a number and an instant date but nothing progressed out of either but I wasn't expecting much out of just one day in Portland.

After our short daygame session we went and grabbed a beer where we talked about theory and other life pertaining topics which is where being around like minded people can do wonders. After hanging out for a bit it was time for me to meet up with my friend for his B-day celebration so I said goodbye to my new wing in Portland and headed over to my friends.

My friend was hosting a dinner at a local middle eastern/ Indian restaurant which actually was way good. Afterwards we went to a local ice cream shop that was serving flavors such as: minced meat pie, olive oil and sea salt, brown sugar and coffee, as well as a few "normal" flavors. I decided to not be too extreme and go with snickerdoodle and cinnamon. From there we dropped in numbers to just 5, it was my friend, his 3 other band members, and me. We headed to a local pub and they decided on drinks. I planned on driving to LA in the morning so I only had the opening round of a tequila shot. We bounced to about 4 different pubs while everyone was getting more and more drunk and soon it was just down to my friend, his bass player, and me. I was DD  but it was cool. It was soon 3:30 AM and I was planning on driving to LA at 7 am so I could be there before midnight. I also planned on being asleep by about midnight so I could get enough sleep to do so. I also somehow forgot people go out and party on their B-days into the wee hours of the night.

I ended up dropping my friend and his bass player off and decided to say  "Fuck it" and hit the road. Filled up on gas, bought some munchies, put on the Ipod and........ pulled over about 2 hours later to go to sleep hahahha. I only slept for a few hours before I was back on the road, drove for about 8-10 hours before feeling exhausted and pulled off for another hour of sleep and then mad it the rest of the way to LA. You know what with only such a limited amount of sleep over those few days I only almost fell asleep at the wheel probably about 5 times... not to bad :P

Eagerly awaiting me in LA was the girl I am buckling down with for the winter. After arriving, Having a short passionate kiss I hit the shower making sure to clean off the reminisce of all the abused adrenaline I've managed to use over the last week. It didn't take long after that before we were in bed tangled inbetween each other. The reason I decided to stay with this girl for the winter is for many reasons. mainly out of all the girls I've been with she is the one who closely resembles me and we connected and see eye to eye really well. she also has the figure I love which is about 5'6'' and 140lbs, not chubbie! she is proportionate and has a sex drive of a 16 year old boy. Also she is pretty damn kinky which is a topping to the cake. On a normal day she is a 7 but dressed up and flashy she can pull off an 8. She has long flowing brunette hair, a nice full ass, and Large breasts that are fake, we are in LA after all.

I had 3 days scheduled for LA before it was off to Hawaii for 17 days and in those 3 days I can say I managed to do one thing. spend about a months worth of sperm. girl just did not want to stop :) Even better is she got on birth control before I came ( pun intended) so that means no rubber for the whole winter YIPPEE! The whole time in LA was pretty much straight forward. Wake up have sex, Do whatever during the day, go out for food, come home have sex multiple times. After 3 days of that I was actually pretty wore out. I mean a guy only has so much to offer. After all that she drove me to the airport where we kissed and said goodbye.

Next stop was Hawaii where things got a little frisky, dangerous, and adventurous. So until next time cosmonauts, stay tuned :)

Traveling stories part 2: Vancouver

Right now I am in my hotel room in Hawaii. Why am I sitting in a hotel room in Hawaii writing this blog post. well since you so might have asked, I'm as bright as a tomato from sun burn so I couldn't think of a better time to write up this post while I shy away from the sun and whine about my burns :p

When I last left off I had a wonderful end to my stay in Seattle which included me driving a girl I picked up the day before in a mall back to her house because she was drunk and puking everywhere. After getting back to my hotel and sleeping for 4 hours I took a quick shower, packed all my things and checked out of my room. Next stop was Vancouver Canada for two days to visit a friend and do some more daygame.

The drive to Vancouver from Seattle was alright and was only 3 hours. I had a bit of a hassle at the boarder when the guard at the checkpoint asked me why I was going to Vancouver. My response: to meet up with a friend and go party. I'm not sure he liked that answer to much as he then sent me to the screening area to have my truck searched. about an hour after arriving at the boarder checkpoint I was off again to Vancouver. Good thing they didn't find that kilo of cocaine I was smuggling...... juuuuuuuuuuuust kidding.

The friend I was planning on meeting up with was a kid I met in Seattle on one of the daygame forums a couple years ago when I lived there and I helped him get into daygame and we've stayed in contact since then. He was going to college in Vancouver and invited me up for the weekend. After arriving and catching up we headed to a mall to do a bit of daygame. The mall was pretty big and we even got lost a couple times. We both did a few approaches and I got a number from one but wasn't really attracted to her after talking to her so I decided I wasn't going to contact her. For the night we planned on going into downtown Vancouver to the main street called Granvelle St. with all the night clubs. Vancouver's night life was pretty cool and we didn't even go into any clubs. It was like the whole street was one outdoor club. I managed to do a bit of approaches but even though we were outside it had a "night game" vibe to it which I didn't care for and I quickly lost my motivation add that to the 4 hours of sleep that day and I was pretty out of it so no action for the day.

The next day was a day to remember. We walked into downtown Vancouver for some more day game and this is where I was blown away by Vancouver. To me Vancouver is almost like a small New York. It has the same look as the city and the same vibe but a bit smaller and a more friendly vibe it was way cool. I even told myself after leaving that I would love to live there for like 6 months. The daygame was pretty good in downtown as well. Tons of attractive girls around every corner. I did a bit of approaches but my vibe was still a little low and I never really got going full on.

Two Approaches stand out from all the ones I did. One was of a Eastern European girl who was living in Vancouver now. She was cute but nothing super special. I decided to bounce her for an instant date just for the hell of it and we went to a starbucks. I told her it was my birthday that day and she bought me my drink. we then walked to a store where she had to get some things. Afterward we talked for a bit more and then she went on her way. I didn't really feel really into her so I didn't really follow her up except sent her an add on facebook. The next approach was the golden ticket. My friend pointed out a girl and said he thought he had approached her before and told me to go approach her so I went over to her. She ended up being 40! but she was actually pretty cute. she was short and petite so she held her youth really well and I guessed she was like 35.

She was a really nice girl and we had a pretty lengthy conversation. I tried to bounce her for an instant date but she declined all my offers. She told me she wasn't into dating anymore and really wanted to settle down more. I figured to interaction wasn't going to lead anywhere so we said goodbye, gave her a hug and started to walk away. Then she said this magical line. "I'll be at xxxxxx place if you want to come by tonight" I walked back up to her and said that she can't say her goodbye and then say something like that. I took her number and said I'll invite her out and if she wants to meet up cool and if not then no big deal. It turned out that wasn't the same girl my friend approached but we soon went back to his place to hang out for a bit.

The plan was to go to a electro concert that night with my friend. I texted the girl and she was being very receptive. I eventually suggested a meet up for a drink and she agreed and the gleemer of light turned brighter. We had planned to meet up later in the evening at a classy pub for a couple drinks. We met up out side to which I found out she lived about 2 blocks away (first sign of a green light). We went to the venue where we ordered drinks and started to create more of a connection. She was a very feminine girl and had a lot of character traits I liked and the conversation flowed well with a lot of chemistry involved. She Suggested bouncing to a nearby venue where she had a friend DJ'ing. we swung by the venue and had another drink and danced a bit. about 30 minutes after arriving I told her I needed to get going to the concert I was planning on going to with my friend. I pulled her in and told her to walk me. She grabbed her things and we headed out the door.

It helped that my truck was parked in the same direction as her place. When it got to the point of either going to my truck or the direction of her place I changed directions and headed to her place while keeping her mind occupied with conversation. standing outside her place I said " aren't you going to invite me in" we kissed and ran inside. While inside we hung out for about 5 minutes before she straddled me and I picked her up and carried her to her bedroom. We stripped down and got more sexual. I asked if she wanted me to grab a condom and she said she was on a birth control and was clean. BAM! say no more. we started to have sex and it was a pretty good sensual fuck. After sex we hung out for a bit before my friend called me drunk saying the concert isn't all that good and to meet him back at his place. Me and the girl got dressed and headed outside. We parted ways and I went to my truck where a problem arised.

Turns out the parking garage I was in closed at 12 and it was now 12:30 am. I waited in this lobby of an apartment next to the garage and figured I would wait 5 hours until the garage reopened. about an hour later a security gaurd came around and I asked him about the garage which he had a key for so I was able to get my truck out. I headed to my friends place where I found him drunk and spending most of the time in the bathroom puking. I passed out shortly after to the noises of him struggling with his drunkness. The morning I was planned to go to Portland for the day and then onwards to LA

I woke up then next day with 5 hours of sleep, took a shower, me and my friend talked about the night and then said our goodbyes. Vancouver is awesome and was a great experience now it was onward to Portland..... to be continued

Seattle, Vancouver, Portland, LA, Hawaii stories

This past 10 days have been more exciting to me than my whole summer of work in my eyes.

It all started as I left Alaska. I landed in Seattle, Took a cab to get my truck and after jump starting it because it had been sitting for 7 months I went to a local motel to set up base camp. Prior To landing in Seattle I had already had a few leads to work on. One was a really attractive 20 year old Romanian girl that I had been keeping the attraction going for the last 6 months, strangely she became a little distant in the last month but more on that later. The next lead was a Russian girl I had approached the last time I was in Seattle. Barley kept in contact with her but her text seemed warm so she was a possibility. The last prospect was a girl I was seeing for about a month when I lived there 2 years ago. Each time I made a stop in Seattle we would usually catch up but the last time didn't end in sex. I felt like she was definitely my meal ticket.

After trying to text the Russian and her not responding I figured she flaked, not a big deal as I figured she would. The main shocker came from the Romanian girl. I had put in extensive work with this girl and the last time I was in Seattle it ended with her in my hotel room and me going down on her. I eventually got in contact with her after her giving me a bit of a cold shoulder and found out she recently got into a relationship. Not a big deal, I did want to still see her just to catch up because in the end I'm not just out to sleep with girls I do like connecting with them. We made plans for us to meet up at a mall at 7. Well 7 O' clock came and she was nowhere to be found. I don't blame her though, I feel like she Is highly attracted to me and if she was around me she might be tempted to be a little precarious. That leaves the last girl, well low and behold after I mentioned something along the lines of me seducing her she told me she also just got into a relationship. FOR FUCKS SAKE! Anyways, I did manage to land a meet up with her. We went out and got some food, flirted for a bit, and she took me back to my truck. I kissed her on her cheek a few times and that was all she let progress even with my persistence.

That is the result of my promising leads from Seattle, turns out they weren't so promising. That is just one part of the Seattle failure there is oh so much more to tell.

The night I landed in Seattle I Approached a girl in a grocery store. The interaction went decent and I felt like I had a 50/50 chance with her. Over the next few days I went through hell and back. I went out daygaming and I figured I approached about 30 girls. I would like to say it was loads of fun but I would be drastically lying. Approach after approach I failed and got rejected. It was pretty harsh but Daygame has its swings just like anything else. I did manage to get another number which flaked, surprise surprise. I also landed an instant date with a pretty bubbly girl who ended up flaking on the texting and who had a BF and of course the girl from the grocery store flaked as well.

Seattle was not turning into a very good experience but a glimmer of hope surfaced.

It was my last approach I was planning on doing for that trip. I saw her, and my mentality shifted and I just felt like I was going to be able to land something with her. Short petite girl with long black hair, bright eyes and a quirky fashion sense. I approached her and quickly found out she had a very snappy/ smart personality. The type of girl to call you out on your shit and then walk away. Challenge me she did and I feel like it is because I was able to hold my frame and not be affected by her challenges for the reason that she became attracted to me. The script switched and now she was showing interest in me. I suggested to go to get smoothies for an instant date and she agreed. We talked for about 30 minutes and really created some chemistry. She had to go so we swapped numbers. Later we planned a date for the next day as I was leaving the morning after.

We met up at a local bar for a couple drinks and continued the connection, afterwards we went next door to an ice rink for some ice skating. My friend had contacted me and wanted to meet up that night as well to go out for drinks so I invited her out for drinks and dancing and she accepted. We met up with my friend and all went downtown where we were all having a lot of fun and having a few drinks. We bounced to a couple different venues and a problem quickly arised. My girl had drank too much.... I was trying to sober her up but to no avail it didn't work. She said she wanted to go home so I began to walk her to my truck where she began puking all the way home.... Strike 3 and I'm out. It sucked because this girl was a way cool girl ( i'm actually talking to her on facebook right now) We share the same personality traits so I can see this leading to a future success story.

5 days in and the tale is off to a fast start. The next day was Toronto for 2 days where the stories are even juicier..... To be continued.

200th post! lay report, end of season.

Alright alright aliriiiiiight! Finally it is here, the end of my work season. Yesterday was the last day for this season and it couldn't have come any sooner. The last few weeks were grueling and I actually genuinely wanted to quit about 4 days prior to the end. I've been working with this company for the last 8 years in the summer and I am really starting to resent the people I work with. I already planned on next season being my last season but we'll see If I even make it that far before flipping the bird and saying FUCK IT!

Enough of the complaining and on to the good stuff. Well 2 weeks before the end of the season I was finally able to get a lay from just daygame this summer. I have had a lay from online and a girl gave me a bj as well but just from strictly daygame this was the only one. There were a few other situations that could have lead to sex but I either turned it away or blew it, but with the lack of quality in AK I'm somewhat ok with just being able to have landed one girl.

I do feel like I have progressed a lot during this summer even though work really put limitations to how much I could game. None the less I do it for the enjoyment, the process, and then experience of it all with the results being the last thing I worry about. Or that is what I try to do anyways.

Unfortunately This lay wasn't even enjoyable to me. The process leading up to it was cool but actually laying the girl was a bit of a drag. Kind of the "thrill of the chase" syndrome. She was a sweet 22 year old girl, about 5'2'' black hair and petite. She also had two kids which didn't bother me at the time because I have no plans on being baby daddy. It also put a little bit of an obstacle in the way when trying to date/ lay her.

since she had her kids she was occupied with them always, so trying to find a time in our schedules to meet up proved difficult. The only thing that really saved it was the fact that I lived downtown and she worked about 4 blocks away and had lunch about 30 minutes after I got off work. So that was the window of opportunity with this girl, an hour lunch on the weekdays.

First date was just a coffee meet up for about 30 minutes. Nothing special, just building some comfort with her and talking about normal stuff. The next date was at a popular sandwhich shop. After lunch I built more of a connection and chemistry and by the end of the date we were hand in hand and kissing. The 3rd meet up I got her to come over to my place but she verbally said she was hesitant about it and I calmed her nerves and just made her comfortable with my place. She came back over the next day and we had sex.

The sex, as I said wasn't really that enjoyable to me. I actually enjoy taking my time with a girl and being able to seduce her to where she is begging for more. Since she only had a short time limit, that wasn't possible. The second factor was that she had 2 kids. Covered in clothes she was a pretty attractive girl, but naked she was a bit farther from being attractive. Sounds bad I know but I'm a guy. The sex was kind of fast and not really saucy by any means so not much to report. After that she Texted me about 5 days later asking if it was a hit and run. I really don't like hurting girls or lying to them so I just worded my responses to not include hurtful things. fortunately for me I leave in a couple days so that is the easy scape goat for me.

Last but not least this post is the mark of my 200th post on this blog. I actually really enjoy blogging for me It is a way to not only talk about things I want to talk about but it is also like a personal journal that I can share for whoever wants to read it. Something I can look back on and recollect the memories. I have big plans over the next couple years which includes creating 1 or more websites and this blog might end up being shifted over to 1 of those sites.

To anyone that reads or follows my blog I really really appreciate it. I don't do this particular blog for any kind of following but having a following is cool and I really enjoy having readers.  I appreciate any kind of support you guys show and thank you for reading.

So until next time cosmonauts, stay tuned :)

Pushing past comfort zones.

Day game will teach you many things that you can use in all aspects of your life. One of which is being able to push past comfort zones.

Fortunately this Isn't only going to relate to day game but your whole life in general. Comfort zones can be both great and horrible. You can feel comfortable with a person to be able to connect and relate to them or you can also live your life in fear because you are too afraid to leave your comfort zone.

Not being able to step outside of your comfort zone can be what defines a persons life. If you think about it almost everything you have had to do in your life you probably weren't 100% comfortable doing. When you were a young teenager going for your drivers license were you comfortable taking the test or were you nervous, when you went after that job you really wanted did you ever second guess yourself? Or how about that girl sitting over in the corner of the coffee shop practically begging for you to go talk to her.

Without stepping outside your comfort zone you simply don't experience life. A quote I heard said " you have to become comfortable at being uncomfortable". Meaning that you have to be ok with the thought and idea that being uncomfortable is ok.

Do you want to pursue a new career but you are scared of the possible negative outcome? Do you want to move up stakes in poker because you feel you are ready but you are afraid to lose money? Are you staying in a relationship you don't care for because it will be too hard to find a new one?

The only way to grow, push forward, and experience better things is to take action and push past your comfort zones. If not you simply missed out on what could have been, but you won't ever know because you didn't step outside your comfort zone.

Are you living life?

Same day lay mission

Here is a story that happened to me last weekend when I was daygaming.

It was Saturday and I was feeling good. The day before I had a good day of daygaming that included hanging out with a girl for an hour That I had approached before she went to work. In that time I tried to kiss her 3 times. After she went to work I landed another approach that went really well and set up a date for the upcoming weekend. To put it short, I was feeling good.

Today I was hitting the mall right next to my place, There's a reason I'm staying where I am staying  ;) After rocking up to the mall and spending a little time inside I found that it wasn't very busy in terms of hot girls running about. Well this is Alaska after all, not many hot girls in general. There was a couple approaches that didn't lead anywhere as well as an amusing one that went " I just wanted to tell you that you look attractive for an older woman"  "I'm 30....."  ...... anyways.... After those approaches I felt like it was just going to be one of those days. A day that you want to put in the effort but there just isn't anything to put the effort into.
Then I saw her.

A small young girl walking out of a bra/panty store wearing tight fitting grey leggings that shaped very well to the contour of her small tight ass. The primal instinct kicked in and I ran after her. I stopped her and began to gaze into her eyes as I began to create a conversation with her. She had shy personality, yet she wasn't afraid. I found out she was only here for the day, living a few hours away she came into the city for shopping. Finding out she was Russian was a big surprise as she didn't have an accent but looking down at her breasts I found a reason to believe her. Such a sweet nice girl with a body that would make you drool.

She insisted that she needed to find jeans and asked if I could help walk her to the store, good sign. We began walking. I brought her to the store and told her that I wanted some frozen yogurt and she was coming with me. She agreed and we went on our way. She was following my lead as younger girls love to do and it was going smoothly. After getting our frozen yogurt, we sat down and began to have a proper instant date chat. learning a little bit more about each other, nothing too special. We finished up and I began to walk her to the store again. In front of the store I told her I wasn't going to shop with her as girls take too long to shop. I said we would probably never see each other again and she agreed. I asked her if she likes Italian sodas as I know a really good place close by. She hadn't had one so I told her we are going to go get one and she followed my lead again.

The Italian soda place I just outside the mall about a block away, conveniently about 1 block away from my place as well. From here I think you know where my thoughts were at. After we were handed our sodas she followed me as we began to walk in the direction of where my place just so happened to be conveniently located. We arrived at the corner, just about 50 feet away was my place, all that I need to do now is suggest coming up for some music and funny videos on the computer, lead the interaction and enjoy the fruits of my labor.

That's when captain destruction on the mighty destructor stepped in. RING RING!!! her phone began to go off. She answers it and tells the peron on the phone she is in one of the stores in the mall. She gets off the phone and says, "sorry I have to go" .... so.... damn.... close....

Before she leaves I take her number as we hug and part ways. Even without the happy ending to the story, I was loving how things turned out. I enjoyed the process of being able to lead the interaction but sometimes you just can't fade the case ace on the river.

I began texting her and we've texted a few times since then. She is going to try and come back up to see me before I leave. she seems to show a lot of interest but girls are girls so I won't be holding my breath by any means. Next is the date set up for this weeknd with the girl from the day before. We'll see if she comes through.

until next time cosmonauts, stay tuned :)