Monday, March 25, 2013

2 dates in one day.

this week wasn't as extreme as lasts weeks but I still have some stories from it.

i believe i left off last week on wednesday. thursday i think i went out and did daygame but i cant really remember that well. friday was the big day. i had my second date planned with the costume designer from dancing with the stars at 8pm. also the latino girl that i picked up a few weeks ago was back in town and we set up a date for friday afternoon but she had to be back at 7pm so it looked like it was going to be my first time having 2 dates on a single day.

the latino girl is super fun. she has a very outgoing personality but is very sweet. she also likes to think of a lot of ideas of fun times we can have. she thought of the date that we went on friday she also suggested a concert to go to tonight that we are going to later and she also is inviting me on a party bus with all of her friends and then onto a club with a private table and all that.

she's pretty into me and i like her a lot as well. although i dont want a serious relationship, it feels good to be able to connect with someone and enjoy each others company and have fun. the date we had planned out was a place called hunigton library which was a huge botanical garden place as well as some kind of historic library but we didnt go into the library. they had really cool exhibits of things like a desert garden, asian garden, austrailan garden, and plenty of other exhibits. it was actually a really cool place and i have a short clip of the two of us in part of the asian exhibit.

i ended up dropping her off around 7 and headed for my next date with the DWTS girl. i wasnt sure if i was even going to make it cause of LA traffic and almost cancelled but it worked out in the end.

we plan was to go to a pool hall and go from there. i was interested in how this would play out because after the first date i was for sure that she wasnt interested in me as that is how the vibe felt. after meeting up with her she seemed pretty welcoming and open so things went good. she was really big into college basketball so we watched her team play and then we played pool. the date went pretty well and we flirted a bit and i suggested we bounce to a frozen yogurt place.

we got to the frozen yogurt place and ordered our treats. I am kind of wondering what the guy at the shop is thinking as this was the 4th girl i brought there this week haha. after we got our things we talked for a bit and i actually asked her why she came out again. she said she talked it over with her friends and thought that even though i was 25 she is 30, that she shouldnt judge me off of that because i seemed really decent and things were going good..... girls... i felt like there was a bit more attraction this time around but she is still a conservative type of girl so i had her take me back to my car. i gave her a couple hugs and then pulled her in close for a couple passionate kisses where she accepted them warmly compared to the first time around.

i also really like her as well. she is pretty calm and collected but at the same time is outgoing and open minded and i really like girls like that. i suggested that it was time to wine and dine her and she agreed so we have our 3rd date set up for this thursday. i feel like this will be the date that will get her back to my place and i can finally escalate things with her. i have liked the drawn out seduction process that we have gone through so far as it keeps things fresh. if we dont seal the deal after this date i might be able to take her out one more time but after that i will be leaving back to  AK and wont be able to.

saturday was interesting as i went out to do daygame and put in a lot of effort. i got 2 numbers that i feel are really flakey so im not thinking anything about them but one of the girls seemed to have a flirty vibe to her and i thought for sure i was going to meet up with her later that night but she never did text back i'll text her one more time to see if things come through or not. another thing that stood out was one of the last approaches i did. i approached 2 girls and started to talk with them but after a few minutes the hottest of the two started to turn bitchy and was totally blowing me out of the water which was totally unexpected. it rattled me a bit. even so much that the next day when i went out i had negative thoughts on my mind about approaching.

in a sense it is good to have your world shaken a little bit so you dont become arrogant but it still isnt something i look foreward to. in the end you just got to push through it and grow from the experience. onward is the only way upward.

so until next time cosmonauts, stay tuned :)

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

st. pattys day special.

since the last time i posted i have got some crazy stories to tell which is why im posting on tuesday and not sunday, basically waiting for all the craziness to calm down to report it.

a couple things have come up. one is that my summer job is going to be starting up in the middle of april this year insted of the begining of may so im going to be leaving LA on the 6th of april which i have mixed emotions about. im ready to leave LA but dont necessarily want to go back to work so soon.

so i decided that this last thursday was going to be my last day playing poker here.  from my last few posts if anyone keeps up they will notice my dying interest with poker. im at a point with it that i dont really enjoy playing live that much anymore and it isnt really fun for me. when things get like that i think it is best to move on so that is why thursday was my last day. i plan on traveling next winter so im not sure if i am even going to consider playing it again. overall i think i would probably enjoy playing online vs. live more but thats me. this winter i made just 4k. i was running pretty shitty at 20$ hr playing mostly 5/5 nl at one point i was up 8k this winter before i had my shitty run bad spell but yeah i only played about 220 hours over the course of 5 months where as in the past 2 years i put in about 650-700 hours each year.

now for the really juicy details. so friday i went out and did daygame which went pretty well. got some numbers and thought one who was a tourist was going to come through but looks like shes going to flake. saturday i went to an electronic dance concert and that's where the story begins.

so a friend i met in vegas was telling me about the concert a month ago so we made plans. when i got there i had some intentions on running game but very specific game. i was only trying to say super direct lines. the ones i said were "you look like you are either a really good kisser or really bad" and based off their reaction i was going to kiss them. i told that to about 8 girls and all of them rejected it except for one who i was already talking to for about 2 minutes and i ended up making out with her for a short time. the other line was " what are you doing later, you should come back to my hotel" i only said that to 2 girls and suprisingly.... they both rejected as well haha. i was basically just trying to push the boundaries and see what would happen. since i was trying to approach girls i wasnt really focused on the concert so a few hours into it i decided to drop the approaching and enjoy the rest of the concert. at the end of the concert i was waiting for my friend and i talked to a girl which went well and i got her number.

the concert went from 4pm-2am and we didnt get to sleep until like 5 am and then was up at about 1030 am. after that i drove back home i went out to do some daygame. i had also been texting the girl from the concert since the night before and she agreed to come see me later that night.

shortly after i began my daygame session i approached a petite girl with long black hair, blue eyes, and looked latvian. we got into a good conversation and things were flowing. she was 24 and a teacher from arkansas just visiting LA on a school trip with some of her students. i ended up showing her around the santa monica pier and shopping district which pretty much turned into a 2 hour instant date. we clicked pretty good but she was leaving in 2 days and i felt like i wouldnt be able to secure anything with her so i didnt have my hopes up. i ended up telling her i had to go (to another date) and told her i would love to take her out before she left. she told me she would try but couldnt promise anything which i understood so i took her number.

i went home and straightened up a bit and went out with the concert girl for our date. the date went smooth and started with mini golf, then the arcade, frozen yogurt and then to my place for "a movie" we soon headed into my bedroom where we listened to music and we began making out. things were going good but as soon as i unbuttoned my pants she started to hesitate and wanted to leave. i persisted a little and could tell she was interested but she just wasnt sure for some reason. i even pulled my dick out and put it in her hand which she grabbed and held but she just didnt want to commit. i think she was trying to push me around a bit not really sure. strike 1

after that night i wasnt too worried. i had texted the teacher from earlier and she was responding good. the next day i continued the text and she agreed to come out. i had a bit of time so i tried some more day game but i was a little drained from the last couple days and wasnt doing too well. so i ended up meeting with the teacher around 9pm and had plans to go to santa monica pier and ride the rides and play some arcade games. the rides were closed so all we did was play the games but still had fun.

from there we bounced to a pub with live music which we got one drink and left, after that we went to a sushi joint and got sushi and drank some saki. from there we went back to the beach and walked the beach under the moonlight, you know real romantic type shit haha. i put her arms around me and was going to escalate for the kiss but she was hesitant so i pulled back. we then went to another pub and had one more drink before closing time and headed back to the cars. when we got to her car i pulled her in and began to kiss her. we then proceeded to make out for about 5 minutes and i told her i lived about 20 minutes away and had some dvd's if she wanted to come back. she said should we take your car or mine. we jumped in her car and headed to my place.

when we got to my place we put on the dvd and watched it for about 20 minutes before we began making out and took it to the bedroom. things went really smooth and she wasnt hesitant really at all. i began to take my pants off and pulled my dick out and put her hand on it and she accepted in warmly. eventually we were both stripped and i tried to go inside her which she was hesitant about. i backed off and then we made out more. then i began to advance again and she allowed me inside her. but after about a minute she said we shouldnt be doing this and we stopped and continued to make out and then went back to sex for about a minute where again she stopped. that cycle continued about 5 or 6 times. she really wanted it i could tell but she just needed that extra push in her mind that it was ok which i should have helped her with. i never did end up cumming but the whole date and chase was really fun and i enjoyed it a lot even though i didnt cum. she drove me back to my car at about 530am where she had to get back to her hotel and we kissed and parted ways. i actually really do like her and connect well with her so i told her i would keep in touch with her and skype and possibly come see her when i travel for the winter. so kinda strike 2

the next day i had a date planned with a girl i approached about  4 or 5 weeks ago and had already went on 1 date with her. she was kind of like a marilyn monroe look alike and super cute. again it went mini golf, arcade and then frozen yogurt (turning out to be my weapons of choice) she is a pretty classy girl though and relatively conservative but pretty fun, i suggested bouncing to my place but she was pretty hesitant on the idea and dicided not to. we got back to my car where i pulled her in and gave her some nice kisses and sent her on her way. shes a really sweet girl and seems like decent girlfriend material but i told her im leaving in about 3 weeks which she was sad about so im not sure i will get any further with her. strike 3 im out.

so those are all the stories. they were all super fun but i am pretty tired since the last 5 days so im going to get a good night sleep and hit the streets for more daygame. i also have a possible date lined up for friday night with the wardrobe designer from dancing with the stars again which would be date number 2. she agreed to go if her schedule works out so i guess i didnt scare her away. i think she might just want sex but just needs the push so we'll see so i have that to look foreward to. so until next time cosmonauts, stay tuned :)

Sunday, March 10, 2013

success doesnt always feel like it

this week sums up basically as the title puts it. there was actually a lot of success but it doesnt really feel like it.

poker had a lot of mixed emotions this week as it has the last month or so. the first day i played i actually sat with 250$ of a free roll because of a promotion the casino was doing kind of like a rake back promotion. anyways i ended the day break even after being up like 250. the next day was actually pretty stellar and won almost 1500. the 3rd day i lost 750 and it put me on edge and i just decided i didnt want to play the rest of the week after that. so yeah i came out ahead for the week but just didnt really feel good about it.

daygame was pretty interesting. thursday and friday i went to a big mall about 10 miles north of where i live and ended up doing quite a lot of approaches. i think i ended up getting 5 numbers or so from those two days. one number i got from a girl i got on film. my friend/wing in seattle wanted me to record some approaches i did so i did using my phone. the quality of the recording is shit but its a recording none the less.
the girl turned out super sweet. she was 18 and still in high school haha. we texted the first night and it went go so far and she seems like shes into me so we will see if it goes anywhere. i eneded up getting a few more number over the rest of the weeknd but so far nothing super solid. a lot of the numbers i got from last week have been the concentration of my efforts.



a couple girls that i got there number from a while ago are back in town and i am trying to set something up with them this week so we'll see how that goes. and there are a couple other possibilities but im not to concrete about them. so basically same thing. this week was success but it feels like it wasnt.

this weeknd i am actually going to a electronic dance concert about an hour out of LA which should be pretty awesome. im meeting up with a friend i met in vegas. im definitely going to try and pick up girls and im going to try to go super direct basically trying to kiss them within the first minute of talking to them. so i have that to look foreward too and then after that the latina girl i slept with last week will be back in town so we will connect again and maybe i wont feel like a failure so much :p

anyways things are going good just feels like i should have more results but im still enjoying the process of everything. until next time cosmonauts, stay tuned :)

Sunday, March 3, 2013

week of day game

this week i didnt even play poker and pretty much spent the whole time running day game and ive got a lot of stories to share.

basically i didnt have the drive to play poker since i have been feeling so low about it so i just decided to spend the whole week doing day game. monday was a different story as it turned out to be a really off day for me. i think i suffer from chronic depression because about once a month i got through a phase where i am just depressed as shit and dont want to do anything anyways monday i just drove around the coast and that was it.

tuesday went pretty well. i went to a pretty big mall about 10 miles north of where i live and just felt pretty good. since it was a weekday there wasnt a whole lot of girls but i was approaching pretty much every girl that i found attractive. probably approached 12-15 girls. i ended up only landing 2 numbers but it was just a lot of fun that day and i wouldnt have cared if i didnt get any numbers. the first was when i was sitting on a bench and a really attractive young girl walked infront of me and smiled as we held eye contact. if a girl ever smiles at you it is a green light. i chased after her and stopped her to start a conversation.

we instantly clicked and attraction was in the air. she is 19 with a tight body. i tried to do an instant date with her but she said she was with ehr sister and didnt have time. the conversation was pretty solid so i took her number and weve been texting since then. i tried to set up a date later in the week but shes out of town for a week so we decided to plan something when she gets back.

the next number was of a girl who was cute. not a 100% my type but she was pretty interesting and claimed that she is the wardrobe designer of dancing with the stars. she seemed pretty cool so i took her number. weve only sent a couple texts and i could see this one fizzling out but it might produce results.

wednesday was a slow day i dont think i got any numbers that day. it doesnt really stand out but im sure i went out and did day game.

thursday was really entertaining. i had a date planned with a girl from last week that i approached. she was super materialistic and one of those talkative types. pretty much think of kim kardashian as she resmebled her in a way. i would never want kim kardashian in my life but i would fuck the shit out of her. same thing with this girl. so to put it bluntly she is a means to an end. the date was fun we went to the mall that i picked her up at and we tried on clothes and had fun with it. i was holding her and playing with her and moving things pretty smoothly. we got lunch and then i walked her to an exit. i pulled her in for a kiss and she objected. she said she doesnt kiss on the first date. i played with her and teased her and then pulled her in again and she said she wasnt a slut, in a joking tone. i persisted a little bit but i dont think it was going to happen. we hugged like 3 times and then i let her go.

i actually was going to try my first bounce back and try to take her to my place since i lived just up the road but since she was like that i knew it wasnt going to happen. im not 100% sure how i feel about her but if she keeps seeing me then ill keep pushing for it.

after i was done seeing her off i decided to go back into the mall and spend a little more time doing some approaches. i went to the bathroom and as i came out i saw a sexy dark haired girl in a long black and white dress passed and my instincts triggered and i chased after her.

this girl is what i got into day game for. she turned out to be latvian. long black hair, blues eyes with long black eyelashes tight body with a nice ass and tits....yeah. she was actually really sweet even though she looked intimidating. we talked for about 5 minutes before i suggested an instant date and she agreed and we went an got frozen yogurt. so i just finished a date about 15 minutes before and now im on an instant date with another hot girl. i was loving it.

she turned out to be really genuine and nice. super attractive and just all around a 10. she turned out to be 30 and had a kid which was a downside but the interaction went good and i liked her so i got her number. we have sent a few texts so far but i sent one a few hours ago and she hasnt replied so she might have flaked. i could see this girl flaking as im sure shes looking for a provider in her life and not a boy toy ;)

friday i had another date planned from a girl that i approached last week as well. she was a sexy little latina girl with an outgoing personality. i had it planned for us to go play laser tag and then get a couple drinks. laser tag was pretty fun and exciting. then we bounced over to a bar and got a couple drinks and was having laughs and fun. we jumped to another bar and continued with some talk and banter. then we decided to go to the city walk in universal studios where they had a couple clubs. after we arrived we didnt take anytime before we ended on the dance floor and was having a lot of fun. this girl could dance too so that was enjoyable. after an hour or so i figured that was enough and i lead her back to my car to take her to my place. she never even question where we were going which i thought was amusing. we got to my place and i put on a comedy and we watched tv for about 30 minutes before i picked her up and carried her to my room.

we laid in my bed and talked for another 30 minutes while kissing before things began to get a little more hot. i took off my shirt and then her bra. she persisted that she wasnt going to have sex. i agreed and we continued to make out. things got even hotter and i took off my pants and tried taking hers off but she rejected me. i was persisting with her but she just wasnt having it. i thought i would try again in the morning and if she didnt want to then i knew i would see her again. i think she just really liked me and didnt want to come off as easy. in the morning after waking up we started making out again and i took off my boxers which got her really horny. i began to take off her clothes and she gave into temptation and things began to get hot. after we finished we laid on the bed cuddled. she said she wanted to go again i told her to give me 20 minutes lol

this girl seems pretty into me and totally comfortable with the open relationship that i have to offer so im sure i will be seeing her frequently.

saturday was different. since i was up all night on my date and just finished having sex i wasnt in the mood to do daygame but i still wanted to haha. i went out anyway, i only approached one girl as that was all i could force myself to do since i was pretty much exhausted haha. this girl was super sexy. she looked russian but she wasnt. blonde hair blue eyes. a flower in her hair and lip gloss making her lips shine. we clicked from the start and attraction was in the air. i tired to get her on an instant date but she had other plans. so i went for a number close. she told me she just got out of a relationship and also worked about 80 hours a week and was super busy. i told her i would text her any ways and if she dint want to hang out it wasnt a big deal. i texted her today and she replied so we'll see if i can go further with her cause im super attracted to her.

today i went to a mall and did about 10 or 12 approaches but nothing ever really hooked or went anywhere so no numbers or results but still had a good time. something funny that did happen was a girl that i approached about 4 weeks ago that flaked on me sent me a text telling me that she went to austraila and even though she thinks she blew it with me she would want to meet up if i did. i told her we can meet up either saturday night or sunday night so i have that im looking foreward to. also im sure i'll set up something with the latina as well. theres also a couple girls im texting that are out of town for a week so i might have something coming around then.

so yeah this week was full of results and things were and are looking super busy in the day game life. i also bought a skateboard today. i use to skateboard in highschool and loved it but stopped after i got into my career and into poker. i decided to pick it up again so i can enjoy that passion again. i'll be playing poker again this week but im not sure how much depending if i land some dates or not. but thats about how my week went so until next time cosmonauts, stay tuned :)